Net Dating Secrets

First Steps

darren — Fri, 27 Jul 2007 08:21:47 +0000

Doing things on the internet, is simple really, logon put in a search term/address and of you go. It might be tempting to go straight to a singles chatroom and try to find somebody who would interest you.

But STOP, chat rooms by there anonymity attract people who are not as they seem and don’t have the same honorable intentions as you. As you start asking questions, answering their questions you will start to get back the answers that you want to hear! After time it will get very frustrating, everything starts of well, you are having a nice conversation with a person and warming up when all of the sudden, the topic moves towards sex. You let out a sigh and either have to bar messages from that person and risk the person bad mouthing you in a public chat room. Usually you have to leave the chat room all together.
In other words, it is the easiest thing to get someone to sleep with you but if you are looking for something more enduring, like a partner for life, then you are going to have to be a little more patient. The pick of the litter is not easy to find. But you do find it; it is going to be worth the effort.
So instead of going into a singles’ chat room, what you could do is, you could try the whole thing out from a different angle. You could try working backwards.

Sit for a minute or two and try and think about the things that interest you and things that you would find interesting in a person.

By ‘things’ over here I am not referring to physical attributes. I am not referring to something that might interest you in a person’s physical appearance. Again the distinction has to be drawn between a serious relationship and a casual relationship. In a casual relationship, the importance is always for the physical attributes. We are more concerned with what the person looks like and what the person has been endowed with.

On the other hand, if we have a serious relationship, then the physical qualities are not so important. Compatibility is probably the most important factor over here. Along with that there are certain qualities that obviously we will be looking out for. We are talking about qualities of the mind. After all, beauty is only skin deep!

Astrology and Dating

darren — Tue, 24 Jul 2007 10:38:30 +0000

Dating Astrology

How compatible are we with certain birth signs, there is a whole world of astrology hat can be used as a tool for relationships.
Planets can carry extra weight in relationships, the Sun shows us our true self, our courage and vitality.
Some astrologer use asteroids. The asteroid Juno relates to marriage, partnership, and empowerment. Ceres is a nurturing influence. Vesta is purposeful, passionate, and deals with protecting the home.

Plants are more commonly known for astrology and a few examples are given below.
Venus relates to love, affection, values, aesthetics and affinity, and shows which qualities must be present for you to love and be attracted to a person or situation, and where you’re most likely to find love.
The Moon symbolizes your needs for emotional security and acceptance, and shows where you’re likely to receive support and attention from others.
Mars shows action, passion, sexuality, initiative, taking a stand and willingness to fight.

Birthcharts are also used and show us how compatible we are with others, there will be some points of compatibility and some points of stress. A sign of stress is not necessary seen as negative thing it can be exciting, challenging, stimulating it can of course be antagonistic and worrying. The level of detail should not be that great when the couple first meet an overview of each persons plant yields basic information. Sometimes a friends bitrhtdate helps and gives an idea of the compatibility of a certain type of person.
Once the relationship becomes serious and marriage is on the horizon a more detailed reading could help with possible further conflicts that might arise and are totally un-foreseen at this stage. The more in-depth reading also helps for both parties to understand the relationship that they will enter into.

The reading will suggest the issues and these can be discussed and addressed. This stops things building up in the relationship and become areas of hurt that take a long time to be healed and worked out.

There are many aspects of astrology that can help in finding your ideal mate and/or strengthen existing relationships. But you do have to be a believer!

20 Ways to make someone Smile

darren — Tue, 17 Jul 2007 12:31:27 +0000

20 Ways To Make Someone

Smile

Do you want to put a smile on someone’s face today? Maybe make their day a little better. It won’t cost you a single penny or much time to do just that. And because smiling is contagious, it probably won’t just be one person you make smile today.

Here are 20 ways to turn that frown upside down.

1. Send some flowers to your partner at work.
2. Compliment a friend or work colleague on their appearance.
3. Donate something to charity.
4. Take a friend out to lunch.
5. Let someone know you miss them.
6. Make a surprise telephone call to your partner at work, just to say hi.
7. Hold a door open for someone walking behind you.
8. Hug your partner for no reason.
9. Leave a joke on a friends answer machine.
10. Send a card to a friend letting them know what a good friend they are.
11. Give up your seat on the train to someone when there aren’t any left.
12. Share your umbrella on a rainy day.
13. Ask a friend if they need anything while you’re out shopping.
14. When it’s raining, plan an indoor picnic with your children.
15. Leave a love letter somewhere where your partner will find it.
16. Send someone an unusual and unexpected gift like sex toys.
17. Tell your child you’re proud of them.
18. Tell someone you thought about them the other day.
19. Cook a surprise meal for your partner one night, especially if they normally do the cooking.
20. Tell your partner you love them. ever

Did you know it takes only 17 muscles to smile, but 43 to frown. Why waste all that energy frowning when you could just smile.

Here are 5 more facts about smiling.

1. Women smile more than men.
2. Smiling releases endorphins that make us feel better.
3. We are all born with the ability to smile, it’s not something we learn from others.
4. A smile is a universal expression of happiness.
5. A smiling person is thought to be a more pleasant, attractive, sociable, sincere and competent than a non-smiling person.

Just remember, smiling is the easiest and cheapest way of improving your looks and you never know who might smile back.